By Linda on March 22, in Affair Recovery , Marriage Building , Self Help Use these tips to first mobilize yourself then stop the gaslight effect in your relationship. After Doug wrote his post on gaslighting the other day, I had to run out and get the book that he referenced: It seems that Dr. Stern is the authority when it comes to the subject and I wanted to learn more, as well as share some ways to make it stop. The author suggests that you first identify what your spouse does and what you do.
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October 5, at 7: I was stunned because, after 16 years of marriage, I never saw it coming. During those discussions, before her revelation, I had told her that I see nothing wrong with polyamory. What consenting adults choose to do, is their own business as long as no one is hurt. Looking back, I wish I had been much clearer than I thought I was. Things got really bad. Lost 24 lbs, and found myself in therapy.
The Rules Revisited I've dated countless women and it has always amazed me how little they know about men. If nothing else, this blog is an outlet for voicing my astonishment at the typical female's ignorance of the male mindset. At most, it is a reliable source of advice for women who want to improve their chances with the opposite sex. The topic is avoided because women do not realize how controllable their appearance is.
October 28, at 3: I agree with your article about it accelerating the demise but come at it from a different way. No one could figure out what was wrong and I was left bedridden.